Is Love A Feeling Or A Fancy? To me love is a fleeting feeling. It comes and goes, love will last as long as you live, but in all the time you live it will leave you emotionally scarred.Love dies, it fades until only the littlest shred of self respect is left. Love hurts, it always has, however there will always be a glimmer of hope that remains throughout that pain. It keeps us moving.